This Week in Jack’s Sex Life – Option B

Continued from This Week in Jack’s Sex Life – Talking and Teasing

Wednesday

On Wednesday afternoon, I got home from work and immediately went to the bedroom to change. While I was shirtless, Carol entered the bedroom and hugged and kissed me. She began to get a little frisky with me and I did the same back to her. I was quite worked up again and it showed.

“Put that away,” she said with a smile.

“One of these days, I’m gonna get you!” I said with a grin.

Carol just smiled at my increasing perviness.

Again, it was not a convenient time to go any further. Many of these occurrences happen in between dinner, homework and playing with the kids. They are just brief moments when Carol and I are alone together between all the other stuff that goes on in life, and so, there’s often no chance to follow through.

Later, as we lay in bed, Carol talked about how she doesn’t sleep well enough. I recommended providing some ‘services’ to help her sleep.

“Uh, no thanks,” Carol replied.

I asked what the problem was. Eventually, she admitted that she wanted to be freshly showered.

“Tomorrow night, okay? I’ll be ready,” Carol said.

“Tomorrow?” I asked, unsure if I heard her correctly.

“Yes.”

“Okay. Tomorrow night, right?”

“Yes, tomorrow,” she replied, mildly irritated.

“Okay,” I agreed but remained skeptical.

Thursday

It was tough to make it through the work day. My mind was racing. Would she worry herself over the course of the day to the point where she would tense up or even refuse me that night? Should I just leave it alone and wait for her to bring it up? No, never wait for Carol to bring something up.

I had to go out for a bit that night. Would she already be fast asleep by the time I got home? Was that her plan to avoid sexual contact?

I really didn’t know if anything was going to happen. Carol seemed quite normal in her messages and Snapchats throughout the day. I avoided mentioning it or making any sort of sexual comments at all.

After work, we had dinner, I hung out for a bit, then I went off to participate in my weekly rec league sport. I managed to get a few games in but I took off an hour early. My plan was to just go for it.

At home, Carol was lying in bed, watching one of her TV shows. We chatted a bit then I left the room to check on something, then I came back into the bedroom and closed the door.

“So are you gonna keep watching this show while I do it?”

Carol laughed.

I took care of business. I was feeling quite excited but I wasn’t physically ready to do anything further. I decided I wasn’t going to stress over it. I wasn’t going to try to make it work or let her try to lend a helping hand either. I wanted her to not worry about it at all for now.

“Now, isn’t this better than us doing nothing at all?” I asked.

“Yes,” Carol said, satisfied.

As we snuggled I asked Carol if she was having anxiety over it throughout the day.

“No, but I did think about it a lot. I just kind of told myself it’s going to happen. Being busy at work helped take my mind off it.”

So we went from talking on Monday to some action on Thursday, no alcohol required. Sure, it is frustrating to not be able to have intercourse, but far worse than that is no sexual contact at all.

Hopefully we’ve truly begun to repair our sexual issues.

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