Marriage Counselling

Well, That was painful. I guess I was right to be nervous going into that first session. Thanks to my blogging, I was able to answer a lot of the questions as they were fresh in my mind. We do have a strong relationship in many areas now that we’ve been communicating and actively working … Continue reading Marriage Counselling

Anniversary Weekend

I tried to do a condensed version but there's no way around it. I need to be as thorough as possible about our conversation. It's important. If you've been cheated on and are working on reconciliation, you need to have these kinds of talks. It's not easy but if you truly love each other and … Continue reading Anniversary Weekend

Last Night’s Talk

I thought I'd take a break from reliving my Nightmare to talk about recent events. Carol spent Friday, Saturday, Sunday and Monday night in bed with me. We hadn't gone beyond holding and kissing and I kept the discussion to a minimum, preferring to simply enjoy things as they are. We decided to have a … Continue reading Last Night’s Talk

How I Met Your Mother part 2

I was never one to hide myself from others. I’ve always believed that if you want to keep something secret, you share it with no one. As soon as one other person knows, everyone else will know in time. That’s why infidelity will never remain a secret. When you commit infidelity, one other person already … Continue reading How I Met Your Mother part 2

Your Past Will Not Protect You (How I Met Your Mother part 1)

If you think it could never happen to you for whatever reason(s) in your shared history, you’re wrong and you need to continue working hard at keeping the communication open and the relationship interesting. In hindsight, there were warnings, little and big, and there were moments where I could’ve done things differently. Hindsight isn’t very … Continue reading Your Past Will Not Protect You (How I Met Your Mother part 1)